All officiant services through Stonegate Church require a minimum of four pre-marital counseling sessions in order for the request to be fulfilled. Along with these counseling sessions, an officiant fee determined by the pastor is also required. You can see our policy for officiant services at the bottom of the form. If you are pursuing pre-marital counseling already with someone, please let us know who that person is below. We generally require a church approved mentor couple or counselor.
Do you attend Stonegate? *
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Are you a covenant member at Stonegate? *
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If you already have someone you are pursuing pre-marital counseling with, please let us know who they are and provide contact information. (If you do not know, please just answer N/A)
This contact is required in order for officiant services to be fulfilled. We will be following up with them on how pre-marital is going.
Have you been married previously? If so, please walk us through your marital journey, including the circumstances that ended your previous marriage(s)? *
If applicable, describe your relationships with your siblings in a sentence.
We would love to get to know more of your family. Describe you relationship with your mom in a sentence. *
Describe your relationship with your dad in a sentence. *
Please walk us through the marital history of your parents. *
Has there ever been a break in this engagement or in your dating relationship, and if so, why? *
What has been most enjoyable and frustrating part of your relationship with your fiancé? *
What adjectives would your five best friends use to describe you? *
What adjectives would you use to describe your fiancé? *
Why do you believe your fiancé is the person of God's choice for your life? Be as specific as possible. *
Describe your relationship with your fiancé's parents/guardians. *
Over what two to three areas do most constantly have conflict in your relationship? *
How does a person become a Christian? *
Describe your walk with the Lord. What has it been like in the last 6 months? What words would you use to describe your relationship with Him? *
Please give us a picture of your relational history. *
When was your first "dating" relationship? How many relationships have you been in leading into your engagement? And please give us a candid picture of your sexual history (previous to this relationship and in it)? It's been our experience that most people come into marriage with much brokenness in this area of their life. If that's not you, praise Jesus! If that is you, there is much grace from Jesus to be enjoyed. We do not intend to shame you, or hurt you with this information. Rather, our goal is to create a safe environment where you can be known and loved.
In your words, what is the purpose of marriage? *
When thinking about marriage, what are you most excited about? What are you most fearful about? *
What are your goals for pre-marital counseling? *
I have read Stonegate's officiant policy and agree to the terms. . If you do not need a Stonegate officiant, please check the box, "I don't need a Stonegate staff officiant." *
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